So what the heck is PUA qualifying?
Qualifying a girl is probably one of the most important step of a seduction. If you misses is element, it can cause a lot of trouble down the line.
Qualifying is basically making a girl demonstrate to you that she is someone of quality. This is usually done by asking her a question like, “What do you have going on for you other than you looks?”
And when she answers this question, she is qualifying herself to you.
The reason this process is important is that it gets the girl to invest in the interaction. She is not just a passive observer anymore. Instead she is now actively trying to impress you, though she might not realize it. It is just a basic principle of human nature that we become attached to something that we have invested in.
Another every important purpose of PUA qualification is that it give the girl a reason for why you like her. Girls need to feel like you are not after her for just her look and by qualifying her, you are showing her that you are also interested in her other qualities.
It might not seem like a big deal but if you forget to qualify a girl, it can come back to bite you in the ass. Most of the time this will be in the form of last minute resistance, which is when a girl suddenly have second thoughts about hooking up with you right at the last minute.
Many of the top PUAs agree that qualification is one of the most crucial part of a pick up.
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Until next time…