How To Get A Girl’s Number – A Guide To Getting A Girl’s Phone Number
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Alrite, before we start diggin’ into all of the super “ninja” text and phone game techniques that I’m going to teach you…
…we need to make sure that YOU know…
The Right Way To Get Girls Numbers
If you ain’t got the digits, then you can’t play the text game, right?
So what’s the BEST way to ask for a girl’s number?
Well…here’s what NOT to do:
Most guys ask for the phone number with the mindset that he is trying to GET something from her. He’ll ask for it as if he’s trying to get a loan from a bank…
“Well…if it’s OK with you…I was wondering…if you could..”
DON’T DO THAT. If you are currently doing this…STOP IT!
You should ask for the phone number confidently…as if you expect her to give it to you.
ASSUME COMPLIANCE.
And be casual about it too. Act as if you’re the kind of guy who just gets numbers from girls all the time and it’s no big deal.
Here’s a GREAT way to think about it: Just ask for her number in the same way you would ask someone to “pass the salt.”
If you make a big fuss about asking for her number…it will make her think that you are the kind of guy who might not deserve it.
Make sense, right?
Here’s An Example Of How To Get A Girl’s Phone Number
Let’s say you’re talking to a girl and things are going well.
At some point in the conversation, smile and say…
“You know what…you’re actually pretty cool. Here, punch in you’re number.” (Then hand her your phone.)
The key here is to use a tone of voice that implies that you’ve been sizing her up from the beginning and that she passed you’re test.
This will establish you as the person of higher value.
Just say this with confident and it will work. Trust me.
Practice it a few times alone if you need too.
Here’s another key point. Once you hand her your phone,
say…
“Oh, and give me your phone…I’ll give you my number.”
Then program your number into her phone using a funny
nickname for yourself.
Something like…[YOUR NAME] Big Sexy
…or [YOUR NAME] Super Stud
Why is having YOUR number in HER phone important?
Well, most hot girls won’t pick up calls from strange numbers.
So by having your number in her phone (so that your name will show up whenever you call or text), you will INSTANTLY set yourself apart from all other guys.
Also, it will give her an unconscious feeling of comfort and familiarity with you.
She’ll think…”I must like this guy because I got his number in my phone.”
For more great techniques on how to get a girl’s number, check this out:
http://howtoflirtwithagirlovertext.org/TextGame
A Big Mistake That 99% Of Guys Make When Getting Girls Phone Numbers
Now after she gives you her number, don’t do what 99% of guys out there do and…
WALK AWAY FROM THE INTERACTION.
Most guys think, “Sweet! I’m done. I got her number. Time to go.” Right?
WRONG!
This is a big mistake and it can cause her to FLAKE on you down the line.
Here’s why…
For one, it leaves a “bad taste in her mouth” because it makes it seem like you were only there to get the number.
…Like it was some kind of “trophy” or something.
I mean, if you guys were hitting it off…then getting the number would just be a natural part of the conversation…not the end result, right?
Secondly, by leaving right after the “number close”, you are making your job much hard later on.
I mean…think about it.
You already have some emotional momentum going with this girl…so why not stick around a little longer and build some more comfort and attraction?
The more of a connection you can create NOW…the LESS you’ll have to do…and the EASIER the work will be LATER.
Plus, the more you find out about her…the more material you will have to work with to start a conversion with her later.
So next time you get a girl’s number, instead of just leaving right afterward, stick around and continue the conversation for a little longer.
Trust me…almost NO GUY out there is doing this…and she’ll be so PLEASANTLY surprised by it that her attraction for you will spike even more.
If you want to find out more cool “phone and text game” secrets that will give you an edge over all other guys, go here:
http://howtoflirtwithagirlovertext.org/TextGame
Alright, I’ll let you digest all the great stuff I’ve just given you and put it into good use.
Talk soon,
Johnathan M.
P.S. If you’ve been making these mistakes that I’ve talk about without realizing it, then there are probably DOZENS of other easily fixable mistakes that you’re making RIGHT NOW that are screwing up your chances with the ladies.
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7-Minute Video That Might Change Your PUA Life
I just got done watching this very interesting video on YouTube. I can say a lot about it, but I think I’ll just let you see for yourself. Click to watch the video below:
Watch this…
There are many nuggets of wisdom to be taken away here but the one that I liked the most was…
“Everyday, do something that scares you.”
To pick up artist like us, this little piece of advice is very profound.
If you are thinking about doing something to change your life. Anything. It can be picking up girls, or starting a business. But is too scare to get started, then use this video as you inspiration.
If you don’t take action now, one day, you will grow old and look back on your youth with disappointment and regret, wishing that you would have pulled the trigger.
So just do something. Anything. It doesn’t have to be big. A little bit every day. And trust me. You will be amaze at how far baby steps can take you. And in the end, you will be much much happier for it.
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Until next time…
Johnathan M.
P.S. Seriously, trust him on the sunscreen part. 
Text Messages To Send A Girl – The GOOD And The BAD
Hey,
I was just reading this very good post about what kind of text messages you should send a girl and I thought I’d share it with you.
Here’s the link to the original article:
PUA Text Messages: Text Messages You Should and Should Not Send
The article has lots of specific examples of good text messages to send a girl. I’ll share with you some of my favorites and comment on them:
1) Hey you…can you keep a secret?
I really like this one because it’s guarantee to generate a “Yes” respond from her. Plus it creates a bonding dynamic between you two. Anytime when you can share a secret with a girl, it creates a “Us vs The World” frame that is very powerful at creating attraction between you two.
Of course, you would then use this line to segment into a funny, teasing joke about her like suggested in the article:
“Shhh, don’t tell anyone I said this…I met this girl (her) who is really nice. But I think she is kinda weird and I think all she wants to do is get in my pants.”
2) Quick! Quick! Beer or wine? Beer or wine???
Then after she answers you, follow it up with, “Light beer or dark beer?” Then after that, just say, “OK, thanks” It’s very random and it leaves her guessing.
I’m a big fan of random text. It’s fun. It’s unpredictable. And if done right, it’s freakin’ funny. It also definitely set you apart from all the other boring guys that text her.
More importantly, it sets the stage for a flirty interaction. You can get away with A LOT more stuff when you’ve already establish yourself a a wild and crazy guy who is liable to do random things at times.
Now, if you want to learn more about the “what” and “when” of how to text a girl you like, I suggest you sign up for my FREE “Text Seduction Newsletter”.
Until next time…
Johnathan M.
Flirting With Girls – Flirting Tips From A Master
I was just reading this article on how to flirt with girls. The guy who wrote it is named David Black. I don’t know him personally, but this dude definitely knows what he’s talking about.
I’m going to be discussing and referencing his article in this post so I recommend you go ahead and read David’s article first and then come back and read the rest of this post.
Here’s the link to the article:
This article focuses more on flirting in a real life setting (as oppose to over text message) but it still has some great ideas that will help you in both area.
The article basically makes two points:
1) You need to have the right mindset/attitude when flirting with a girl. When you get that right, everything else will come together. I absolutely agree with this point. The right attitude is SO IMPORTANT when it comes to attracting girls.
Unfortunately getting this part right is a little harder said than done. If, like me, you are not one of those guys who naturally thinks this way, then it can be tough to have the right mindset in place, especially when you are face to face with a hot babe. The key to developing the right mindset is to remind yourself if it as often as you can. Remember, we are pretty much trying to reprogram your brain to think differently about beautiful girls. We are trying to undo years to social programing from movies, TV’s, and the media. It’s going to take some time, but you WILL get there.
2) The second point he made was about frame control. I definitely agrees that knowing how to set the frame of an interaction is extremely powerful and everything else he is saying is dead on.
I would just like to add a practice action step to all the theories; learning how to set the frame is a skill and it takes practice to get good at a skill. If you’ve spent most of your childhood and teenage years as a dragon slayer in an RPG video game (oh the good times I had then is a skill that is very under develop and it can be pretty hard to all of a sudden do it with a girl you like.
A great baby step to take, and one which has helped me greatly, is to take an improv class. Improv classes will basically make you a master at frame control because you are basically being thrown into a new (and weird) frame all the time. And once you become comfortable setting frames in an improv class, interacting with girls will be a piece of cake.
If you wanna learn more about the right mindset to have when texting a girl, you should check out my Flirting Secrets Newsletter. You’ll learn a bunch of cool ways to create attraction with a girl.
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Until next time…
Johnathan M.
How To Get A Girl To Like You…Stop Being Such A Nice Guy!
Girls like nice guys right? You’re suppose to be a nice guys right? Well…yes and no. Let me explain.
This one is a big problem for a lot of guys.
I know, I know, I was there too. Growing up we’ve always been told that you’re suppose to be nice to girls. Be a gentleman.
So when we meet a girl that we like, we try to bend over backward for her. We do everything she wants us to. But instead of falling madly in love with us like the movies says she should, she leave for some jerk in a leather jacket.
Bull crap!
Well, here’s the truth guys…girls DON’T like nice guys. But that doesn’t mean you should be a jerk either. Girls still LIKE gentlemen. They just don’t like wussies.
A girl want her man to be strong. A guy who challenge her and doesn’t let himself get walked all over. But at the same time, he also treats her well and with kindness.
WTF! I know, it’s confusing as hell.
Don’t worry, you’ll get it. It’s all part of become the perfect guy that women drool over.
I was browsing the web looking for some good articles on the topic and I found this post on a website called DittoEffect.com
It talks about why being a nice guy is a bad idea when it comes to attracting a girlfriend (It’s great for making friends, though. But who wants that?! And it also give you 10 signs of a nice guy so you can try to spot it in yourself and put and end to it.
It’s really good stuff. I recommend you check it out. Here’s the link to the article:
http://dittoeffect.com/how-to-text-a-girl-you-like-how-to-stop-being-a-nice-guy/
Girls are really attracted to guys who are a challenge and whom they can’t just easily get. In fact, this is why the flirting techniques that utilizes the princle of “Push Pull” works so well.
If you wanna read more about how to use “Push Pull” to flirt with a girl over text, then go sign up for my FREE “Text Game Mastery” Newsletter NOW!
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Until next time…
Johnathan M.
Fractionation Seduction – Hypnotic Technique For Text Game Seducation
When it comes to seduction, we can learn about from the field of hypnosis.
There is a principal in hypnosis called “Fractionation” and it states that when a person is put into a hypnotic trance and then brought out of it, the next time that person is put back into a trance, he/she will go even deeper into the trance than before.
And with each successive times that this person is “fractionated” in and out of a trance, the deep he/she will go.
Now this is a very powerful concept that hypnotists have used for hundreds, if not thousands, of years. But it if you take this concept and apply it to the field of picking up girls, then you’ll have…
An Easy Method To Make Your Seduction Ten Times More Effective
In fact, pick up artists and seducers all over the world are already applying this principle and reaping the benefits.
The “Push-Pull” method is a popular application of this principle. In the Push – Pull method, you are constantly push a girl away using playful teases and challenges and then pulling her towards you with compliments and approvals.
A Weird Tip For Talking Dirty To A Girl
Another way to apply the concept of fractionation is when you are talking dirt to a girl over text.
If you find yourself in a heated sexual conversation with a girl and she is getting turned on, let the conversation run it’s course for a while. But then you should pull away from the sex topic and change the conversation to something else.
By doing so you are fractionating her and the next time you bring up a sexual topic, she not only will be more willing to go into it with you, but she will get even more excited and turned on than she did the previous time.
I talk more about how to apply this technique in my FREE “Seduction Newsletter” so make sure you go sign up for it RIGHT NOW!
Well, that’s it for this post.
Sarge On.
Johnathan M.
Getting A Girl’s Number Isn’t As Hard As You Think
A lot of guys make such a big deal out of asking a girl for her phone number. They think that I must be hard and that they have to wait for just the right moment.
Well, the truth is getting her number is just not that hard!
In fact, if you know what you’re doing, you can get a girl’s number within a few MINUTES of meeting her. Trust me, girls give their numbers out all the time. It’s no big deal.
But Here’s The Sad End Of That Coin…
Getting a girl’s number does not mean that you’re going to get laid. A lot of guys thinks that they’ve won the game as soon as they’ve gotten the phone number.
Not true. Not true at all.
You have to know WHAT to do with that number in order to turn it into something more. See to most guys who don’t know what they are doing, a phone number just ends up turning into flaked dates, missed calls, and disappointments.
But The Good News Is…
That’s where text and phone game comes in.
See to a well trained text game PUA, a phone number can be as good as the golden key into her panties. He’ll know exactly WHAT to say to get her to feel attraction for him, HOW to ramp up her sexual desire for him, and WHEN to close the deal and turn it into a real life hood up.
And after you’ve read all the articles and trainings that I’ve posted for free on this site, you will be a well trained text game PUA. Ready to take on the world of platinum hot babes.
However, Before You Can Have All The Babes You Want, You Must First…
Learn how to get the numbers. Without it, you can’t really do much. But fortunately, like I said before, it’s a lot easier than you think.
Plus I’ve put of a bunch of trainings to teach you how to easily get all the girls’ phone number you want.
If you’d like to learn more about how to get a girl’s phone number…CLICK HERE.
It lays out exactly what you should say and how to say it.
Sarge On.
Johnathan M.
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